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The Game of Life
Jill
and I were playing a game and Karla did not want to play with her toys on the
floor or sit in her musical swing. She did however want to be on our laps where
she was in the middle of the activity and was very intrigued with the colorful
houses and cards. At
four months of age she has no concept of a game or the ability to play in a
grownup way. Houses are to
throw on the floor and cards are intended to be low calorie food. Karla is
learning and not much misses her observant eye.
Children
learn from what they are taught, observe what they see and repeat what they
hear. Habits are acquired, attitudes learned, morals developed and values
imitated. Life
is like a game. Sometimes my game
plan does not work. Sometimes my
move sends me back to go or down a slide. Sometimes the throw of dice is not
what I wanted. Sometimes I draw the
winning card. The important thing
is not the game but how I played. Did I have fun? Did I rejoice when someone else succeeded? Did I cheat? Did I get mad if I lost? Did I have a good attitude when things did not go my
way? Did I get arrogant when I won? Want
to know how you are doing? Watch
your children play. May
I say with the writer of Proverbs 4: 10-13, “ Hear, my son (child), and
receive my sayings, and the years of your life will be many. I have taught you in the way of wisdom; I have led you in
right paths. When you walk, your
steps will not be hindered, and when you run, you will not stumble.
Take firm hold of instruction; do not let her go; keep her, for she is
your life.” By
Pat Hertzler February
15, 2004
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